It’s good to read I’m not the only one that disengages so much. I often lurk lemmy every day but do not comment causing people to think I am inactive on lemmy. I have several drafts of comments I never submitted. I once saw someone on lemmy talk about lies they grew up with and said they welcome a woman’s perspective since some of them concerned women. They actually still had perspectives that were problematic and I gave the smallest push on them since most of their comment I agreed with, that caused them to crash out and edit their comment, tell me I am upset and need to calm down and that my experience as a woman was wrong compared to their experience as a man that knows some women and that I am regurgitating thoughtless social media views, just turn aggressive from 0 to 100. It just drains so much of my energy to comment.
It’s good to read I’m not the only one that disengages so much. I often lurk lemmy every day but do not comment causing people to think I am inactive on lemmy. I have several drafts of comments I never submitted. I once saw someone on lemmy talk about lies they grew up with and said they welcome a woman’s perspective since some of them concerned women. They actually still had perspectives that were problematic and I gave the smallest push on them since most of their comment I agreed with, that caused them to crash out and edit their comment, tell me I am upset and need to calm down and that my experience as a woman was wrong compared to their experience as a man that knows some women and that I am regurgitating thoughtless social media views, just turn aggressive from 0 to 100. It just drains so much of my energy to comment.