I feel this so hard. My husband “wants to cook more” but doesn’t and I can’t help but feel that what he really wants is for me to do it. (He swears this is not the case! He doesn’t like planning.) But I don’t enjoy cooking at all, plus I have meetings almost every evening. When we do cook, I will say I enjoy the food more. Otherwise I eat because I have to, but nothing sounds good anymore.

This is the truth. I’m married to a software engineer, and let me tell you, some of his holiday parties were eye-opening for a lowly arts administrator like me. They’re all totally out of touch with how normal people live. Especially if both income earners in a household work in tech.