• Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world
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    8 days ago

    Okay so why the hate towards cucks? I have known cucks and even been the guy who was fuckkng their girlfriend. None of em were conservative.

    They were actually really down to earth dudes who just had a kink.

    On top of they had great sex lives. The cuck thing was just a small part of it. Their woman wasn’t unhappy either. And no not like “I’m getting filled by a bigger cock” Type of happy. But the “we are secure in our relationship and can do things like this with out being jealous.”

    Seriously. What’s the deal with the hate on the poor folks. Hell being a cuck can be a female thing to. My partner loves the idea of me being with another woman.

    Edit: appreciate the answers y’all. Knew Lemmy would have folks who had clear thoughts on it.

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      8 days ago

      Because conservative griftlords, MRAs, and toxic incels push the idea that Real MenTM should maintain exclusive access to their girlfriend’s pussy like it’s the Cave of Wonders or some shit. And so they’ve been calling people “cucks” like it’s an insult for over a decade now because conservatives are stupid.

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      I think a big part of the issue is people who don’t know the varieties and genres of cuck style porn. There are many people like you’ve mentioned who play with others without jealousy, but I think many of them would go with the label hotwife/hothusband or stag/vixen or even just swingers.

      The humiliation, jealousy, and racist aspects are mostly tied to specific types that call themselves specifically cuck porn instead of some other variant, and that’s I think what most people are associating with it.

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        8 days ago

        Ah I gotcha. See for me, I’m not jealous. I’m also not ashamed of myself. My genetics gave me a bit more than average.

        I can have a mfm or fmf encounter without it ruining my relationship. Which is fun.

        Racist parts ya. Definitely see that. They do treat black men like objects, which I really never thought about until now.

        Will say I have had better times with a black man than a white man. Not for any stereotype shit, but for me, imo, white men tend to run their mouths and act like they are king shit. Black men are just chill about it. That’s just what I’ve run into so far though.

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          I agree with you on the jealousy part. I was just commenting that I think many of the people who are not jealous in the way we seem to be, would use different terms to describe themselves, because the word’cuck’ is so associated with porn that focuses on jealousy and humiliation over just enjoying your partner being with someone else.